BY DANICE AKIYOSHI, N.D.
Dr. Danice Akiyoshi
Dear Dr. Akiyoshi:
My boyfriend is still friends with three of his ex-girlfriends. I think this is inappropriate when he is in a committed relationship with me. What do you think?
-Debbie A
Dear Debbie:
In my opinion your immaturity and insecurity are inappropriate for a committed relationship. Adults should be free to choose their own friends. You either like this guy or you don’t. If you need to control him, spare him the drama and move on. I think it’s a good thing when people have shared hard times and they can still manage to be friends. Stop shopping for problems. Join a drama class if you need an outlet.
-Danice Akiyoshi ND
Danice Akiyoshi is a Naturopathic Doctor and the head of Candid Coaching Service. She offers personal coaching services relating to all types of issues and concerns. This is a letter she received from an anonymous reader. To send a question to Danice, email her at straighttalk@candidcoachingservices.com. You can also visit her website at http://www.candidcoachingservices.com.
