BY TIANA GOEGEBUER
In a story of forgiveness and partnership, the victim of a violent car crash has united with the teen that crashed into him. Together, they are working to help other teens who are battling depression.
In 2012, Inland Empire teenager, Luke Maxwell, drove a van head-on into an oncoming vehicle in Temecula. The crash was not an accident. Maxwell, who was 16 at the time, was attempting to commit suicide. He had been silently suffering from severe depression for years, and had decided that he was “done with life” when he woke up that morning. Following the crash, the teen was hospitalized and charged with assault with a deadly weapon.
Lenny Ross, 53, was the driver of the vehicle Maxwell crashed into. Surprisingly, he was not angry with the teen. After finding out that Maxwell was only 16 and that he had been trying to commit suicide, Ross said that his heart really went out to the boy.
Not long after the crash, the two men met face to face in a coffee shop. According to Maxwell, the first thing he did was give Ross a big hug and say that he was so sorry. The teenager immediately felt the compassion Ross felt for him, and knew that Ross did not want to hurt him, but help him to heal. That feeling of forgiveness and acceptance was significant in Maxwell’s recovery.
Together, Ross and Maxwell have a new mission in life: to raise awareness for teenage depression and help those who are battling it. Maxwell has now posted videos about teenage depression, and maintains a blog. He says that he knows he made a huge mistake, but that he is trying to make the best out of it by helping others.
Maxwell’s teen depression support group meets the first Saturday of each month (except the July 4th weekend) at 10 a.m., St. Martha Catholic Church, 37200 Whitewood Road, in Murrieta. The group is open to all teens 13 to 17 years of age who are struggling with depression, self-harm, and related issues.
